relax. she’s probably a bit nervous too even if it’s not her first time. start with kissing and grinding. have her sit on ur lap and move her hips to grind against u. you set the tempo. slow then fast then slow grinding feels really good as a woman. fast grinding is good to up the passion and lust. kiss her neck. touch her everywhere before going downstairs. compliment her. tell her she looks stunning, she smells good, and you love her body. make her feel desired. when she’s on top of you give her ass a little slap and grab. pleasure her before she pleasures you. to get to that point make sure she’s into it then start slowly taking off her clothes. don’t take everything off at once, take her shirt and bra off and kiss her breasts, nipples, neck. then kiss down her stomach and then her thighs. kiss her through her underwear. eat her slowly at first and then you can move up the tempo. moving your tongue in circles is always good. put ur fingers in slowly and don’t jab. if you’re moving slow you’ll feel more confident and in control of what ur doing. slow is also kind of a tease. if you want her to have a really good time eat her for more than 5 mins and she just might have an orgasm. if it’s been a while and you feel she won’t get there, that’s fine just don’t let her get bored. if she’s enjoying it then finish the job. if she looks bored just come back up, kiss her, finger her a bit more. not sure if ur new to oral but it takes time to get good at oral so if it is just stay consistent and don’t use just the tip of ur tongue. grind on her some more w ur pants off. all of this will up the anticipation and make her really want you inside of her. so after ur all warmed up- u did some kissing, grinding and prefucking, ur ready. if she’s kissing you then she wants you so no need to be nervous. put the condom on and a little spit on the tip cause even tho she’ll be wet condoms are dry. start with her on top or missionary. again, go slow. breathing hard and saying fuck in a quiet voice (don’t say it too much) will let her know ur enjoying it. do math in ur head so you last longer. long and deep strokes at first then you can up the speed when ur both comfortable and want to up the intensity. bend her over but don’t start in that position unless she initiates that as the first position. if she’s pleasuring herself while ur fucking then wait for her to cum before you cum. it could be hard to pleasure her while ur doing the work esp cause it’s ur first time so don’t worry too much about it cause ur going to try ur best to make her cum afterwards. i beg you please just try to. she will appreciate it and it will leave her feeling satisfied. even if you finger her while she’s touching her clit she will be happy you took the time to make sure she got the same satisfaction as you. you should be happy to make her cum. be passionate and loving towards her and you’ll be fine.