It's about time we start addressing transphobia in our families. Alright y'all, I really need to make this point because honestly it's starting to get absurd. So I went out with bae [24 MTF] and my dad and uncle to Chili's, and we all got a little drunk off long island ice teas (gotta celebrate our 3rd vax shot somehow ;)). Anyway, my dad said that I should start looking for a girl to settle down with since I'm already 27, but I had to remind that asshole that I already found the love of my life. That, and all the girls in my area are all really shitty anyway. My POS uncle literally stopped everything and said "You can't do much worse than that candy lipstick f-slur-ggot with you!" and starting laughing out loud with my dad. Right in front of our fucking faces. I threw my water at the fucker and took the gf outside. I had to console her for 20 straight minutes until the lady across the table from us came outside and told me that I was brave and powerful for standing up to those bigots and gave us $100. I never felt so empowered and validated in my life. So the next time your grandpa or uncle or whatever makes some transphobic joke, you go to their fat fucking faces and address it. Right. Fucking. There. I refuse to tolerate bigotry anymore and I wish the best of luck to all of you enbies out there! 

Edit: Thanks for all the support and awards from you all. However, I have had to cut contact with my partner. Apparently, I learned that later that night, she sucked my uncle off. Seriously. After everything he said to her. I just... can't anymore. I feel so lost and alone, and everyone in my family is making fun of me for it. I don't know what I'm going to do with myself.